On average, the prevalence
rate for self-injury is 15-20% of adolescents (Heath et al., 2009).
#1 Know what self-injury looks like
- · Self-injury is intentional, self-inflicting, and is performed to reduce and/or communicate psychological distress. Self-injury typically has low lethality.
- · The average onset on self-injury is 12-14 years old.
- · Types of self-injury include cutting, scratching, carving, excoriation of wounds, self-hitting, self-burning, banging head, self-inflicted tattoos and hair pulling. Self-harming behaviors often accompany self-injury such as eating disorders, substance abuse, and risk taking.
- · Be aware of contagion behaviors – On occasion, adolescents begin self-harming after learning about this behavior from a peer.
#2 Stay Calm
- · It is important for all parties involved to stay calm. This includes parents, teachers, coaches, counselors, and extended family.
- · When discussing self-injurious behavior, it is important to remain “low-key” with neutral responses. It is important to avoid having reactive responses when discussing or learning about self-injury.
- · Create a safe place by displaying a nonjudgmental attitude regarding the behavior. This does not mean you accept the behavior. Rather you are providing a safe place for the adolescent to discuss the behavior openly, which is the first step to making changes.
- · Display respectful curiosity. This suggests you want to learn more about the problem rather than have the problem go away quickly.
- · Remember: Self-Injury is not necessarily suicidal behavior. When someone is suicidal, they would like to terminate consciousness. When someone is self-injuring, they would like to modify consciousness (i.e. self-soothe).
- · When approached regarding self-injurious behavior, you should not minimize or dismiss the behavior.
#3 Know what effective treatment
approaches are available
- · It is important to refer an adolescent who is engaging in self-injury to a clinician who has experience in working with adolescents who self-injure.
- · Treatment providers should also present as low-key and non-judgmental.
- · Agencies and providers should offer both individual and family treatment to assist self-injuring adolescents.
- · Thorough assessment of self-injurious behaviors should be conducted upon initiating treatment. Assessment should include many dimensions such as environment, family and adolescent personal history, biological, cognitive, affective, and behavioral.
- · Treatment approaches should include strengthening the adolescent’s ability to manage distress, regulate emotions, and develop self-soothing coping skills.